What happens inside you when someone wrongs you? Has someone ever done something so special for you that feel you owe him or her? Are you getting what is due you in life? What happens when you can’t do enough? …When you don’t measure up? Do you give more than you get?
These situations reflect “emotional debts:” a sense of owing or being owed in relationships or in life. Unresolved emotional debts can wreck your relationships, ruin your health, run your life, and cause endless suffering.
We are all subject to obligations in life. We are all granted certain entitlements. But what happens when our obligations become burdens and our entitlements become traps?
Relationship challenges often revolve around determining who owes what to whom.
Emotional debt is part of Parent-child relationships; Intimate relationships; Business partnerships; Recurrent conflicts in relationships; Break-up and separation; Loss and grief.
Isn’t it time you learned to reclaim your life from the shackles of emotional debt?
Description:Healing The Hurts of the Heart
The hurts of the heart are the individual and accumulated incidents in which we feel resentment, anger, disappointment, or guilt; all emotions, which have been demonstrated to be toxic when sustained over time. Healing the hurts of the heart is essential to our personal health and well-being.
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Date: 2nd – 3rd June, 2018 (2 days)
Time: 9.30am – 6.00 pm
Language: English
Fee: RM5,000 (Inclusive Lunches and Tea Breaks)
Early bird: RM2,900 (Until 22nd February 2018)
Briefly about the Speaker
Nick LeForce has over 25 years experience of training in NLP programs, and teaching others how to be highly effective in every area of their life. His genuine expertise plus engaging training style have made him highly sought after by business organizations and NLP institutes throughout the United States, Europe and Asia. He is the author of several articles and books including, Introduction to Ericksonian Hypnotherapy (1988) and Healing the Hurts of the Heart: Breaking the Shackles of Emotional Debt (1998). He has also maintained a busy coaching practice for the last decade.
Nick holds a Masters degree in Rehabilitation Administration from the University of San Francisco McLaren School of Business and undergraduate degrees in Psychology and Social Welfare. Nick provides executive coaching services and management consultation to businesses as well as personal development services to individuals. He specializes in Value–Based Life Management Skills, helping individuals and businesses to identify governing values and use those values to create compelling goals, make effective decisions, manage time, overcome barriers to success, communicate persuasively, and achieve desired outcomes.
He has provided on-site consultation and training in Communication Skills, Customer Service Skills, Change Management, Conflict Resolution, Supervisory Skills, Time Management, and other topics. Nick has worked with both private and public sector clients, including AT&T, Blue Diamond Almond Growers, California Farm Bureau Federation, Citizens Utilities, Department of General Services, Department of Fish and Game, Holiday Inn, Sheraton Hotels, Sacramento County Public Works Agency, Standard Office Systems, State Teachers Retirement System, Water Resources Control Board, United Corporate Furnishings, Varsity Contractors, and others. He is listed as a Quality Consultant with the California Department of Personnel Administration, Office of Statewide Continuous Improvement.
Since 1983, he has studied extensively with leaders in the field of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Hypnotherapy. He is a nationally recognized trainer with Healing Arts Institute in Roseville, CA; NLP California in San Francisco, CA; and other institutes. He has served as faculty for the University of Phoenix teaching courses in business. He is known for his lively and humorous presentation style.
NLP Training Organziation Malaysia
Australian Board of NLP
China Tiffany Chang's Spaces
International psychology centre
NLP University
PICC
Pullman Hotel Putrajaya
Frank Pucelik-business-trainer of international renown, he is on the list of Top-100 US business-trainers (according to Organizational Development Institute of USA), one of the three founders of neuro-linguistic programming, the author of a number of books on psychology and articles on personnel management, motivation, work with information. Mr. Frank Pucelik is the Professor of Interpersonal relationships department (Postgraduate school, Oklahoma City University, Norman, Oklahoma, USA – 1983-1987).
Mr. Pucelik works as a long-term consultant on the basis of Peace Corps since 1998 (USAID-sponsored program, which provides services of professional American business-consultants to Ukrainian companies). He regularly conducts seminars and takes part in educational conferences of such international students’ organizations like AIESEC, FLEX, JCI, SIFE, AEGEE etc.
Each year Frank Pucelik trains more than 2 000 middle-and top-managers of the most successful companies in the Ukraine, Russia, Belarus, Latvia. Frank Pucelik supports five rehabilitation centers for youth with drug addiction; there are more centers to be open. He is constant speaker of top-ranked conferences, exhibitions, forums and other educational events in the Ukraine.
Frank Pucelik provided training services to a large number of state and private agencies in both USA and CIS-countries. Among them are such companies, corporations and US states governments like: American Welding Society, Bank of America, Chevron of Canada, Conoco USA, California, Oklahoma, Oklahoma University, Institute of Organizational Management of the USA, The Chamber of Commerce of the USA, Wickes International, GHK Oil & Gas Production Company, Rockwell International. In the CIS countries Frank’s clients are: LukOil Volga, Cargill, Nemiroff, Coca-Cola, GlaxoSmithKline, Oracle, Saatchi&Saatchi, Kharkov Biscuit factory, Stara Fortetsja, Sandora, Alef-Vinal, Olimp, Ideal, Fozzy, Rorus, Eltrans Plus, Constanta, Raiffeisen Bank Aval, Universal bank, insurance company “Universalnaya”, Galneftegaz, Morshinskaya, Castrol, Evroset, Swiss transport and shipping company AsstrA Associated Traffic AG and many other companies.
Wisdom of the ancients
Description:
This short program will look at the principals and traditions of ‘Group Membership’ in ancient cultures and examine their relevance and connection to the personal development process during the therapeutic process in today’s world.
Objectives:
“Imagine how many people with PTSD can be cured using NLP heritage”
Description:
PTSD (posttraumatic stress disorder) is a mental health problem that some people develop after experiencing or witnessing a life-threatening event, like combat, a natural disaster, a car accident, or sexual assault.
PTSD gives rise to hopelessness, relationship problems, difficulty fitting in, alcohol and drug abuse, crime and violent behavior with substantially elevated suicide rates.
Frank Pucelik has been involved with the issue of PTSD since he left Santa Cruz in 1977. He taught NLP to Veteran Center Counselors on Veteran Center programs in Oklahoma City and Tulsa, Oklahoma in the early 80s. Then he putthe PTSD Program structure together by combining the best characteristics of at least 5 different communication systems, ancient wisdom, other good PTSD Programs, and of course NLP.
Structure:
1. Understanding PTSD – ways of thinking about PTSD
2. Symptoms of PTSD
3. Rules of Combat
4. Treatment methods
Objectives:
Judith DeLozier has been a trainer, co-developer, and designer of training programs in the field of Neuro-Linguistic Programming since 1975. A member of Grinder and Bandler’s original group of students, Judith has made fundamental contributions to the development of numerous NLP models and processes.
A co-author of Neuro-Linguistic Programming Vol. I (1980), with Robert Dilts, John Grinder and Richard Bandler, Judith was involved in the creation of the fundamental NLP technique of Reframing. A student of Milton Erickson, Judith modeled his tracking strategy for creating and utilizing trance states and metaphors. This work is described in Patterns of the Hypnotic Techniques of Milton H. Erickson, M.D. Vol. II (1976), which she co-authored with John Grinder and Richard Bandler.
In the book Turtles All the Way Down: Prerequisites to Personal Genius (1987), which she co-authored with John Grinder, Judith explored the interrelationships between NLP and the threads of culture, community, art, aesthetics and epistemology. The result of this work was the creation of NLP New Coding, which stimulated a movement toward a more systemic and relational approach to NLP, and a resurgence of interest in the work of Gregory Bateson. In addition to the development of Perceptual Positions, which have become one of the fundamental distinctions of NLP, Judith’s contributions to NLP New Coding include Attention Training and the relationship between conscious and unconscious processes.
The Encyclopedia of Systemic Neuro-Linguistic Programming and NLP New Coding (with Robert Dilts, 2000), provides a comprehensive overview of the field of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, including its wide range of applications, techniques and influences.
Judith has been mainly responsible for bringing NLP to the area of transcultural competence, pioneering the application of NLP to the development of cross cultural skills. Judith’s background in ballet and Congolese dance has lead her to promote the use of dance and movement as a primary tool of NLP. One manifestation of this was the development of the Dancing S.C.O.R.E. technique. Another is the creation with Robert Dilts of the processes of Somatic Syntax.
Judith holds a Masters Degree (MA) in Religious Studies and a Bachelors Degree (BA) in Anthropology and Religious Studies from the University of California at Santa Cruz, where she met Grinder and Bandler. She has taught NLP all over the world, including Europe, Asia, Indonesia, Australia, Mexico, Central America, Canada, and the United States, and was president of Grinder, DeLozier, and Associates, and DeLozier and Associates for approximately 14 years. She is presently an associate of NLP University with Robert Dilts.
Judith is a co-developer of a number of projects applying Systemic NLP, ranging from modeling leadership, to health care and cross-cultural competence. Some of her other written works include contributions to Leaves Before the Wind (1989) and Map and Territory (1997), co-authored with Robert Dilts.
Feelings of wellbeing are fundamental to the overall ability to successfully overcome difficulties and achieve what people want out of life. Past experiences, attitudes and outlook can all impact wellbeing as can physical or emotional trauma following specific incidents.
Objectives:
This short program will focus on the usefulness of NLP skills for the enrichment of our Wellbeing and the roll that art plays.
To use NLP to develop practices related to Breath, Relationship and Movement.
Suzi Smith, with more than 30 years of experience of NLP Training. She holds a Bachelors Degree from the University of Utah and a Master of Science Degree in Counseling from Virginia Polytechnic Institute. She has a Certificate from the Four Winds Society in Shamanic Healing and Soul Retrieval, a Certificate from the American Council of Hypnotist Examiners as a Hypnotherapist, and Certificates as an NLP Practitioner, NLP Master Practitioner, and NLP Trainer.
She co-founded Anchor Point Institute (formerly Western States Training Associates/ NLP of Utah) with Tim Hallbom to provide practical, skill-based training to individuals, businesses, and government organizations. She began conducting NLP Certification Training in 1985 and has been active in bringing NLP skills into people’s lives in many locations throughout the world since that time. Her training is respected for their excellence in providing real-world skills that are practical and useful, and she is known for her ability to make even the most complicated process understandable and easy to learn.
Recently, Suzi has become fascinated by the notion of longevity—what it takes to live a long, healthy, happy life. She has been collecting the latest research findings regarding what contributes to a person’s vitality. At this point, she has set her intent to live every moment of life fully and completely to the age of 120.
With the hectic lifestyles that many of us lead, health sometimes only grabs our attention when we are ill. Many people feel like they are the “victims” of external circumstances and can do little to actually impact their lives. Luckily, you can learn how, by making a conscious decision to pay attention to the patterns of your thinking, emotions, behaviors and beliefs, to ensure that you have a high quality of life.
This session is for you if you have a sincere interest in enhancing your own personal health and overall well-being. You will have the opportunity to hear about some of the latest research and developments in the mind/body/spirit connection. A great deal can be learned from modeling the discoveries about “what works” for others in maintaining vitality and longevity. You will learn practical, every day applications of NLP- allowing you to become more conscious of what actually works for you in creating the life you want to live. You will obtain practical, specific skills to assist and coach yourself in continuing to achieve your goals related to health and well-being.
The figures from around the world are showing that many of us can expect to extend our physical lifespan. That, in part, is due to the incredible advances in technology and medicine. In this presentation, the focus will be on the strategies each of us can develop personally that will increase the length of time we spend in good health. If you want to explore what you can do to better the quality of your life, this is where you want to be.
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What you’ll learn:
Sid Jacobson, Psychotherapist / NLP Expert
Sid Jacobson, Ph.D. was one of the early Certified Trainers by the Society of NLP. Early on he carved out his specialties in the areas of education, training, and writing, in addition to psychotherapy applications, using the latest technology from this rapidly advancing field. He has worked as a researcher, trainer, and consultant to professionals, hospitals, schools, clinics, businesses, and professional athletes. As well as serving on local boards of directors he served as Director of the Neuro-Linguistics Forum in the American Society of Training & Development (Association of Talent Management, ATD) internationally.
Sid is the author of five books and the co-author of another, as well as many papers &articles on NLP. He holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology as well as a Masters in Social Work and is considered to be an expert in the application of NLP to education and training, psychotherapy and communication skills. He has been training professionals in a number of fields for nearly 40 years.
Sid currently consults and trains throughout the U.S., South America, Canada, Europe and Asia. He also works with several other consulting firms doing a variety of sales, communication, and management training for some of the largest corporations in the world. Clients include Singapore Airlines, Western Digital, Shell, Conoco-Philips, Applied Materials, Maersk Sealand, Intel, SAP and Case New Holland and more, in addition to schools, government bodies, universities, banks, hospitals and social service agencies.
The NLP approach is built on the principles of human modeling, which involves learning at it’s very core. Much of what we do in NLP is about how people think and learn, and how that leads to behavior, either successful or unsuccessful. These principles can be used to design a system of actually teaching people–children or adults–how to learn: Teaching Learning.
During this presentation we’ll explore, in depth, several key NLP principles including sensory processing, reference experiences and state management. We’ll then show how each of these can be taught and learned in a way that enhances any kind of learning, whether in the classroom, the workplace or in life. We will have discussion, demonstrations and hands-on practice throughout this fast-paced fun presentation.
This workshop is designed for anyone with an interest in teaching and learning, for themselves, or in helping others, including their children. These ideas will be helpful to anyone in health care or therapy responsible for helping caregivers, or patients, learn new information. Of course this is also helpful for anyone in business involved in training or coaching, since the learning process is central to those activities, as well.
Key objectives
You’ll learn the following:
A set of NLP presuppositions for effective learning
Outline
Introduction: NLP and the learning process
What is learning?
Real world experiences in teaching learning
Study skills
Putting it all together
Dr. Hall’s doctorate is in Cognitive-Behavioral Psychology is from Union Institute University in Cincinnati Ohio, founder of Neuro-Semantics. Dr. Hall co-founded the Meta-Coaching System in 2001 with Michelle Duval; there are now 10 Meta-Coach Trainers, 3,500 Licensed Meta-Coaches in 65 countries. Dr. Hall has written 14 books on the Meta-Coaching System as well as many other NLP books supporting Coaching. As an author, Dr. Hall is known as a prolific writer with 30 some books to his name, more than 100 published articles and is recognized as a leading NLP Trainer and developer of many models, most notably the revolutionary Meta-States model and more recently the Matrix model.
“We can do so much more together than alone or apart.”
If you think you can lead a company or organization effectively by yourself, you are still engaged in 20thcentury thinking. In today’s world of interconnectivity which is moving at ever-increasing speed, the ultimate challenge and form of leadership is collaborative leadership ~ leadership teams of co-leaders. It’s new, it’s different, it’s unexpected ~ and it is extremely powerful when well-executed.
Dr. Hall, having modeled collaborative leadership with Shelle Rose Charvet and Ian McDermott, after publishing the book, has been training leaders around the world on this next stage of leadership development.
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Nick LeForce, a transformational NLP coach and a poet; has had over 25 years experience of training in NLP programs, and teaching others how to be highly effective in every area of their life. His genuine expertise plus engaging training style have made him highly sought after by business organizations and NLP institutes throughout the United States, Europe and Asia. He is the author of several articles and books including, Introduction to Ericksonian Hypnotherapy (1988) and Healing the Hurts of the Heart: Breaking the Shackles of Emotional Debt (1998). He has also maintained a busy coaching practice for the last decade.
Nick holds a Masters degree in Rehabilitation Administration from the University Of San Francisco McLaren School Of Business and undergraduate degrees in Psychology and Social Welfare. Nick provides executive coaching services and management consultation to businesses as well as personal development services to individuals. He specializes in Value–Based Life Management Skills, helping individuals and businesses to identify governing values and use those values to create compelling goals, make effective decisions, manage time, overcome barriers to success, communicate persuasively, and achieve desired outcomes.
He has provided on-site consultation and training in Communication Skills, Customer Service Skills, Change Management, Conflict Resolution, Supervisory Skills, Time Management, and other topics. Nick has worked with both private and public sector clients, including AT&T, Blue Diamond Almond Growers, California Farm Bureau Federation, Citizens Utilities, Department of General Services, Department of Fish and Game, Holiday Inn, Sheraton Hotels, Sacramento County Public Works Agency, Standard Office Systems, State Teachers Retirement System, Water Resources Control Board, United Corporate Furnishings, Varsity Contractors, and others. He is listed as a Quality Consultant with the California Department of Personnel Administration, Office of Statewide Continuous Improvement.
Since 1983, he has studied extensively with leaders in the field of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Hypnotherapy. He is a nationally recognized trainer with Healing Arts Institute in Roseville, CA; NLP California in San Francisco, CA; and other institutes. He has served as faculty for the University of Phoenix teaching courses in business. He is known for his lively and humorous presentation style.
Background
Expertise
Clement Thai, Malaysian born Chinese, the very first Chinese trainer to facilitates NLP Coaching Skills in China.
Clement Thai is a NLP Professional Coach certified by NLP and Coaching Institute of Califonia, Master Trainer certified by NLP University, Hypnotherapist certified by Anchorpoint Institute and American Council of Hypnotist Examiners (A.C.H.E), he also has in-depth studies in Satir Model, Enneagram, Family Constellation and others. Appointed trainer in China NLP Institute.
He was the former General Manager (Asia Pacific) of US multinational corporation, with more than 20 years of experience in business management and in-depth studies in western psychology, hypnotherapy, Family Constellation and others. He is one of the leading Chinese NLP trainer who has been highly source in NLP Coaching Skills and by few United States’ NLP Coach Master such as Jan Elfline, Tim Hallbom, Nick LeForce and others. He is the first Chinese trainer that taught NLP Coaching Skills in Mandarin.
Clement Thai had been actively involved in senior management of business industries since early 80’s till late 90’s. With 20 years of experience in multinational corporation in business management, he has been invited often to be Business & Management Consultant by many enterprises in China. His comprehensive understanding and perspicuous analysis in China enterprises’ situations and challenges are always taught in his workshop with practical and effective management skills and solutions. In 1998, he obtained Master Practitioner certification from United States. In 1999. he began his training career in China and his work has been swiftly recognized by many. In 2000, he was in United States to obtain certification in Hypnotherapy. In the same year, he has been certified as NLP and EQ trainer. He had also be involved in other study such as Family Constellation, Enneagram and Satir Family Therapy Model and many more!
Clement Thai is an expert in mind management, personal physical and mental improvement, emotional management, building corporate culture, physical and mental health, psychological treatment and parent-child relationship courses. His courses are dynamic and vivid, easy to adapt by many participants in a relaxing environment.
Language uses symbolism for people to express themselves and to understand each other. It is an “excellent tool” to help progress ourselves and others.
Use this tool correctly, we can move mountains. If this tool is not used correctly, it will be catastrophic.
Richard Bolstad trains NLP Practitioners and trainers in America, Europe, Asia and Australasia. He has written 10 books on NLP, and his books are translated into eight languages. His book “Transforming Communication” is a core text in several New Zealand university programs. He has been a personal trainer for some top New Zealand business and sports people, including leading New Zealand triathlete Steve Gurney, who says “A BIG thanks to you Richard for the NLP work we did. I’m astounded at how quickly you arrive at a solution. It totally turns my thinking around 180 degrees to a resolved and determined attitude. A much more positive state. Race day was incredibly enjoyable and it was just a breeze. Powerful stuff.”
Steve Andreas, co-developer of NLP and author of “NLP: The New Technology of Achievement” says “Richard Bolstad is one of the finest NLP trainers I know. Besides being personable, engaging, and high energy, he is very skilled, with a rare breadth and depth of knowledge.” Joseph O’Connor, author of “Successful Selling with NLP”, and “Practical NLP For Managers”, says “Richard’s work will leave you with a deeper knowledge of NLP, whether you are already familiar with the field or not.”
“Having worked in the training and communications field for more than 20 years I have experienced a great number of trainers and speakers, but very few great speakers and trainers. Richard Bolstad is one of those great presenters. His absolute credibility is the result of a depth and breadth of knowledge gained internationally and nationally. Richard has an outstanding reputation in his specialist field of communication and NLP. Richard’s workshops are practical, immediately applicable and fun to experience for the participants in the workshops. The skills taught will bring benefit to both work and personal lives. If there is one speaker, you and your people get to this year make sure it’s Richard.” – Phillippa Elliot, Past President of the New Zealand Association for Training and Development, recommending Richard Bolstad’s training to the New Zealand Retailers Association membership.
How to use the coaching style that works for your client’s personality and where they are in the process of change.
A session useful to anyone who wants to get someone to change – your clients, your organisation, your society or yourself.
1. Would you like to learn how to make every coaching session more like your best sessions?
2. Do you want new ideas to get those more challenging clients to let go of unhelpful patterns?
3. Are you open to a new model of coaching based the unique change style of each client?
4. Do you want to integrate new coaching skills into the coaching style that already works for you?
In the past almost all models of change have been developed as if one coaching or consulting style fits all clients. But clients are not all the same, and until you understand the differences, you can’t get reliable results. Often, each expert teaches a style of coaching or consulting which fits with their own way of making changes in their own personal life. My aim is to show you how to get comfortable with more than one style.
You’ll learn how to quickly assess where your client is up to in the “wheel of change” and identify what practical interventions would help move them to the next stage. In this brief introduction I’ll also take you through one of the processes we use on the Integration (NLP and Spirituality) training which I co-teach in Thailand each year. And I’ll show you one reason why you responded more to one of the above 4 questions than to the others.
Dr Rangana Rupavi Choudhuri (PhD) is a dynamic International speaker and trainer. She loves being able to share alternate therapy and coaching skills that enable real and rapid transformations. With a Phd in Cancer Research and background in running multi-billion-dollar international business Dr Choudhuri set up in private practice in 2007 and Vitality Living College in 2009.
In brief, Dr Choudhuri is an NLP Master Trainer, Inventor of Breakthrough Coaching, EFT Master Trainer, Matrix Reimprirnting Trainer and Presenter for the Journey sharing the stage with best selling author and pioneer Brandon Bays.
Her seminars are energetic and impactful creating lasting positive transformations in life, health, relationships, work, money and spirituality. She has a very unique style that is compassionate and at the same time laser-like, scalping away the unessential and making the impossible possible.
With years of experience Dr Choudhuri has personally touched the lives of over 4000 people with live interventions, trainings and one to one sessions. Her experience comes through with being able to assess a situation rapidly and use the appropriate skills to enable an effective breakthrough. These are the exact skills she now shares with others for their personal healing or to become professionally qualified. Dr Choudhuri is on a mission to create 1000 trainers world-wide and make the skills available in homes, businesses, cities, villages, hospitals, universities, schools, charities, social enterprises and corporations.
Breakthrough Coaching combines the power of traditional coaching with Neuro-Lingusitic Programming (NLP), hypnosis and timeline regression and progression in a 7 step structured system. It is ideal for those who want to coach themselves or others to have an undeniable transformation in their life, health, relationships, finances and career. Be it healing an illness, increasing wealth, repairing a relationship or transitioning into the desired career/profession. Developed by International Speaker, Author and Celebrity Coach Dr Rangana Rupavi Choudhuri (PhD), Breakthrough Coaching delivers results every time. She is living proof of using the system to heal from 3 illnesses, becoming financially independent and leaving her corporate job to run her own businesses. During the session, she will share: